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Prepare yourself for gown selection
By KIM SUNSHINE

Whether you've been envisioning your wedding gown for years or you've never given it a second of thought, gown shopping can bring on added pressure to your wedding planning process. But if you're educated about how to shop, you can ease that stress and make your gown search fun. After all, this gown will be the centerpiece of the day, so you might as well accept its importance and enjoy the ride.

Step One: Study Up
  • Picture yourself as a bride and you'll be able to start forming a style sense for your overall look. Do you see yourself in a ball gown or a sheath? With a tight up-do or loose ringlets? By picturing your look from head to toe, you'll be able to envision your bridal style, which will help in your gown search. It's also helpful to write down adjectives that describe how you want to look and feel on your wedding day. Anything from "sexy" to "princess" will help a salesperson figure out what styles best suit you.

    Before you hit the shops, look on the Internet, in magazines or at what other brides are wearing in newspaper pictures. You can learn about sleeve styles, skirt details, fabrics and silhouettes, then determine which will look best on you.

    Once you know which gowns are your favorite styles, ask yourself about your ceremony and reception. Your gown should reflect the formality, time and place of your wedding. If you're having a black-tie evening affair you might not opt for a short casual dress, while an afternoon wedding on the beach would probably call for a light, flowing fabric, not a heavy satin ball gown. Also keep the formality your venue in mind when determining whether to wear a veil or gloves _ and their lengths.

  • Step Two: Go and Ask

  • Bridal salons are typically the most popular places to shop for wedding gowns because they are known for personalized service and have a wide selection of gowns from many different designers. You can check online for bridal shops in your area, but word-of-mouth recommendations are also helpful. If you have friends who recently married and have good experiences to share, chances are you will also have a pleasant time with that bridal salon.

    Ask the price range of gowns that the salon carries before scheduling appointments _ you don't want to set your sights on something beyond your range. Also limit your salon appointments to three or four in one day; that way you can compare your experiences rather than getting overwhelmed by them. Take notes on dresses you like, or at least jot down which styles, shapes and fabrics made you smile.

  • Step Three: Trust Advice

  • Once you are at your bridal appointment you can use the knowledge you have gotten about bridal gown styles and silhouettes to your best advantage, but stay open-minded and trust your consultant. Explain what you want, and your salesperson will be able to build on your idea or make suggestions of her own. These salespeople are experts. The really good ones can size up a bride on sight, often suggesting something totally different. This is where being open-minded comes in. You never know how a gown will really look until you try it on, and the more you try the more able you'll be to recognize when you've found the perfect dress.

    Also note that alterations can be made to create the gown of your dreams. For instance, taking a bodice from one dress and a skirt from another is possible, provided the two gowns are by the same designer. Depending on the complexity of your request, the price of your gown could go up and sometimes down if you minimize embellishments, but it might be worth it to get you the gown you've always wanted.

    Lastly, always trust your instincts. If it feels right, then it's the gown for you. If you're questioning it then take it off and try something else; the right gown is still out there.

  • 10 questions to ask your Bridal salon

    1.What sample size dresses do you carry for me to try on? (Most salons carry a size 6 _ if that's not your size call beforehand to find out what size yours carries.)
    2. Which designers do you carry?
    3. What is the price range of your dresses?
    4. Will there be shoes and undergarments for me to use to try on the gowns, or should I bring my own?
    5. Would you be able to order a gown you don't normally carry and if so, would I then be obligated to purchase it?
    6. How long does it usually take for a gown to come in once it has been ordered?
    7. What are the policies and extra costs to rush an order, if that's possible?
    8. Can I have a sample swatch of the gown?
    9. Can I get a written alteration estimate when I order my gown?
    10. Is there a discount if my bridesmaids order their gowns here?

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